Grief: Coping with the death of a child – Part 30


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I like all parents never expected to live longer than my child. It seems as though I was going through life with my head in the clouds. Thinking about things that really have no meaning at all. Having money to but things and keeping up with the Jones’, or so they say. Then in a matter of three days my entire world came to a screeching halt. In the fall of 2005 my first born daughter fell ill. I brought her to the hospital, and they could find nothing wrong, other than she was a little dehydrated. The next morning she fell very ill and the doctors were extremely concerned. She was sent to a larger trauma center and from there a hospital for sick children. I lost my daughter on December 18/2005, at the tender age of 5 years old.

The last two years have been full of Continue Reading

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The Power of Positive Thinking in the Date Pool

What are you thinking right now? If you had to choose whether the thoughts that fill your head most of the time are positive or negative, what would the answer be?

Thoughts are very powerful. They affect your general attitude. The attitude you carry reflects on your appearance, too – unless, of course, you are a great actor. It doesn’t end there. Your attitude can also affect people around you and it also shows in your ads and emails when looking for a new partner.

Positive thoughts are invigorating. When you’re positive, the people around you are energized by your vitality. Conversely, negative thoughts have a sapping effect on other people. Aside from making you look gloomy and sad, your negativity can turn a festive gathering into Continue Reading

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Goal Setting:The Secret To Accomplishing Any Goal

To accomplish any goal, it’s essential that you COMMIT yourself to achieving it. This may sound simple, but it’s rarely easy. After all, true commitment means committing yourself to doing every single thing required to accomplish such a goal. So how do you commit yourself? Well, there’s a secret. You’ve actually used it before. You just didn’t know it…

Imagine, for example, you may convince yourself that you are “committed” to getting a new job… or starting a business… or making more money… or getting fit… But have you really committed yourself to doing all the little – and big tasks – required to accomplish such an objective? Are you ready to make all the sacrifices that go along with true Continue Reading

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Software Development Company – Off shoring

Software Development Company builds Software. What exactly is Software? In a layman’s language I would say that software is a collection of computer programs and information seized in the memory of a computer for various functions. It performs various fruitful jobs for the users, which edge with hardware to offer the necessary services for application software, which in time coordinates and controls. Software once been loaded in the computers memory executes the application. The process involves three stages wherein the instructions are passed through application Software, through system Software, to the hardware, which eventually receives instruction.

Technically, one would say that Software as a Service is an application model where a software vendor works on developing Continue Reading

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How to cope with the anniversaries of tragic losses – Part 2

In life, we will experience tragic losses, whether on a personal, community, national or worldwide level. The anniversary of each can have an impact and open the wounds again. Anniversaries can also be an opportunity for positive reflection and growth.

I miss my parents terribly. I didn’t have them with me nearly long enough. Do we ever? I believe the saying, “we never truly grow up until we experience the loss of our parents”, is true. I felt catapulted into becoming more than I was ready for – an adult who had to maintain life without those that gave me life.

I dealt with the grief, the anniversaries by knowing they are in a better place, a place without pain and suffering. I know they are with me always, in spirit. The miracle I witnessed the Continue Reading

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